The passion and drive of a Scorpio would have you thinking that they are a fire sign but nope, these super mysterious and highly sexual baddies belong under the water element.
Well, apart from being born between October 23rd and November 21st, what makes Scorpios who they are is their awe-inspiring fearlessness and how they take life one bold step at a time. This astrological sign is in a way ruled by two planets, Pluto and Mars. With the influence of both solar entities on this sign, it’s no wonder they are so complex.
If you have this star sign in your life, prepare to be caught unaware more times than you can count because these babes will go from a contagious lightheartedness and throwing caution to the wind to an arresting intensity in a heartbeat. They are deep asf and are looking for a partner who will challenge them emotionally, intellectually and sexually.
Scorpio women are dangerous, but in a good.. and bad way. They are addictive and will make you have the wildest thoughts. You just can never get enough of a Scorpio woman. She will lure you in with her captivating eyes and you will fall in love with her mysterious aura. Scorpios are most compatible with their fellow water signs, Pisces, Cancer and other Scorpios, as they flow on the same emotional frequency, and the grounded and stable earth signs, Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn.
Now that we’ve gotten this out of the way, let’s look into what gets a Scorpios romantic juices flowing and other intriguing bits and pieces of their personality.
So, what’s a Scorpio woman actually looking for in a relationship?
Patience has to be the focal virtue of a potential match for this star sign because they take forever to form an emotional connection or attachment. As I hinted at in the beginning, Scorpios are emotionally unpredictable, their element is water, remember?
It’s rarely ever love at first sight for this super intense and untrusting sign, you’re going to have to prove yourself to them. So if you’re up for a challenge then the Scorpio woman you have your eyes on would most definitely put you up to the test.
Their flaming passion and tendency to form the strongest of opinions can make them quite explosive, so a partner that is given to arguing won’t make any headway with this sign. Scorpios need a partner that can be candid in a level-headed and civil way. They value authenticity, intelligence, loyalty and honesty.
If you’re patient and well, lucky enough to win over this star sign, you’re in for an intense and sensual treat. Your Scorpio partner would have you baring your heart out, facing your biggest fears whilst making sure you’re having the best sex of your life.
So, how do Scorpio women behave in relationships?
She Just Can’t Help But Jump into Conclusions & Overreact
Things can go from 0-100 real quick with a Scorpio. If you have this star sign in your circle, then you’d know one thing they do best is call people out on their shit. Scorpios take small problems and light them up like fire crackers and their tendency to dive into conclusions doesn’t exactly help.
Ruled by Mars, the planet of war and conflict, Scorpios welcome confrontation, this trait is so apparent that they are often weaponized by loved ones to fight battles they have no business getting involved in.
Your Deepest Darkest Secrets Are Safe With Her… Or Are They?
Scorpios are trustworthy. They might casually throw your secrets in your face during a heated one on one argument, but you’re never going to hear your tea from anybody else.
This fixed sign wants to hear all the uncomfortable things you can’t even tell your therapist, and in return, they’d be there every step of the way to help you heal. On the other hand, Scorpios are very discreet, they love their privacy and aren’t really the most vulnerable of people, so never ever push them into letting their guard down. If they feel like you’re prying, sorry for you.
Scorpios and Intimacy, Inseparable
There’s this mysterious and reserved air to a Scorpio that makes them insanely attractive, and to put the icing on the cake, this sign is just as passionate about love making as they are about succeeding.
Sex with your Scorpio woman can be
quite very intense because of her need to make every session ‘mind blowing.’ A Scorpio will want to learn you inside and out so its best not to rush sex with her, if you move too fast, she’ll become very uninterested so take your time and you’ll even find that she likes being submissive. If you just want to skip all that passion and unwind from all the stress of the week with a lazy quickie, best believe your Scorpio partner has other exerting plans in mind.
She’s The Most Appreciative Soul on the Planet
Scorpios always remember the littlest of kind gestures and gifts, it doesn’t even have to be pricey or special, they would have you flustered with their show of appreciation. But don’t think you can buy this sign over after crossing them, they can be quite unforgiving and will probably never forget. On the bright side, Scorpios are the kindest and most caring people to have in your corner, as long as you keep it real with them you shouldn’t really have any issues.
Respect Means A Lot to Her
People born under this sign may be super playful and carefree, but trust me when I say that Scorpios know when they are being bullshitted. Getting their intelligence played is one thing they do not take lightly.
This sign values respect a lot, one might even deem them as pompous. They will most definitely not let any funny behavior slide and are quick to enforce boundaries, the downside to this trait of theirs is that most Scorpios can dish it out, but can’t take it.
Loyalty, Loyalty, Loyalty
Once you’ve captured the heart of this star sign, you don’t ever have to worry about security and stability. Scorpios are very committed lovers. They would be there in a heartbeat for that important function you’ve been babbling on and on about and would even snatch some wigs to show you how down for you they are. Earning this sign’s trust is super hard but worth it in the long run.
She’s a Major Obsessor
Scorpios are the most determined and passionate people you’d ever meet. You’re either with them or against them when it comes to their goals and initiatives.
It takes a lot for this sign to give up on something they’ve set their mind on. The intensity at which a Scorpio hungers to succeed often leaves them jealous, constantly comparing themselves to other people and forcing themselves into unnecessary competitions.
She Has Exquisite Taste
People born under this star sign are very particular about everything they indulge themselves in.Interior decor, music, movies, fine dining, you name it. Scorpios will always have an intriguing recommendation and are always on trend. Knowledge of the arts and culture comes easy to them, so don’t be afraid to broach the said topics with them, you’d be stunned at how resourceful they are.
If You Piss Off a Scorpio Woman, Wahala. She’s Vengeful Asf
Scorpio’s are ruthless and will destroy your life if you piss them off, so avoid playing games with this sign and always be honest with them. They don’t have any room in their hearts for fake relationships so if you bring any drama into their lives, they will cut you off without hesitating.
Happy Scorpio Season Everyone!