It’s Libra Season: What You Should Know Before Dating These Natural Charmers

Welcome to Libra Season! If you always show up on trend no matter what, fall so hard to the point you’re awfully lovesick and have a disarming sense of humour, then you might just be a coy Libra.

This star sign is the seventh astrological sign in the zodiac wheel and dates between September 23rd to October 23rd. People with Libra as their sun sign are constantly fixated on harmony and balance, which isn’t much of a surprise since they are represented by a scale. Ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty, love and desire, Libras are inherently flirtatious and often step into the dating scene with a colossal and concerning amount of love to give.

One thing you can’t help but notice about the Libran personality is how they come alive when they get to partner with people and exercise their conversation skills. Libra babies believe so strongly in social connections and absolutely love to play peacemaker.

This super kind sign is most compatible with her fellow air signs, Aquarius and Gemini, as well as fire signs, Sagittarius and Leo. I’ll be giving a detailed breakdown of what it takes to date and partner with a Libras chipper and enamouring essence.

So, what’s a Libra actually looking for in a relationship?

Libras love arm candy. They want a partner who is easy on the eye, super fashionable and indulgent. This sign puts in a lot of effort in looking aesthetically pleasing and wants their efforts to be appreciated at all times, so don’t hold back on the compliments. They love getting their horn tooted.

Fairness and sociability are must have qualities if you’re trying to win over this sign. They need a partner that shares in their joy of connecting with people, someone that can think objectively and make unbiased decisions, and the most important quality of  all, someone who is super thoughtful.

When Libras love, they love hard. They are always in search of their other half and move on pretty quickly from break ups. Having them as a partner comes with an unwavering subscription of compassion, attentiveness and understanding.

Their need to attain harmony and peace in their lives, which often leads to them pretending that they are okay with a lot of things, so a partner that is super observant and attentive can help this sign be more vocal and honest about their feelings. With that said, let’s look into the 8 core qualities of the Libran personality.

So, how do Libras behave in relationships?

1. Libras Can Be People Pleasers

A Libra in love can be an absolutely adorable sight, but their need to please their partners at all costs can lead to terrible relationship dynamics, and the worst part is they don’t realize how much of themselves they are willing to lay down.

If you want to have this sign wrapped around your finger, keep up the romantic dinners, charm their wits off and be great at make up sex. 

Libras are often raising and lowering their standards in their bid to find true companionship and need to understand that if they want to protect their space and get the genuine love and respect they desire, they need to be firm and keep their bar held high.

2. The Extreme Romantics of The Star Signs

The key to seducing a Libra is to be good at creating beautiful and romantic moments. Libras love being in love and all the niceties that come with it. They want super romantic dinners with breathtaking views, pretty flowers, candle trails and lovely gifts. They want you to go all out for them and not hold anything back.

Ruled by Venus, the goddess of love, Libras are also one of the most charming, beautiful and flirtatious signs. They always know just what to say due to their effortless grace and tact, so if you know a Libra or have one in your life, my guess is you’re attracted to them.

Libras are super flirty so being in a relationship with them doesn’t mean that they will ignore all the attention from their admirers, and not because they are trying to be disloyal or anything, they just love to feel wanted. Seduction comes easy to this sign as well, they are quite erotic and amorous and this side of them comes out to play both inside and outside the bedroom.

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3. They Love To Give Their 2 Cents

Libras and giving advice, 5 and 6!

This star sign wants all the tea on the showdown that happened at work, the heated family beef that has been riling you up all week and pretty much any and every drama going on in your life. They are not just good at offering moral support but are also good at giving practical advice.

People born under this sign are good at troubleshooting. They know how to asses situations and come up several ways forward. Libras are good at giving fair judgement but they can also inherit your enemies if their better judgement tells them to.

4.  They Are Tension Diffusers

Most of your good laughs probably had a Libra involved. Their ability to turn the most awkward and tense situations into lighthearted moments has to be the most fascinating quality about them.

With their suave way with words and off the cuff jokes, it’s almost impossible to be a nervous wreck around a Libra. They just know what to say to make you feel better about yourself.

They will even get personal and share an equally embarrassing experience, just because they want you to feel comfortable in your own skin. Libras make amazing camaraderie/wingmen/companions, you name it. They would make sure everyone’s having a great time without even trying so hard.

5. Queens of Silent Treatment

When a Libra goes uncharacteristically quiet, you’ve definitely screwed up or upset them.

Libras leave a lot of things unsaid because they don’t want to be seen as petty or emotionally unhinged. They suck at broaching difficult topics and amicably expressing themselves, so they just stay quiet and let all their displeasures fester, hoping that they’d go away or magically be resolved without them having to address it.

6. Libras Can Be Ass Kissers

In the well-balanced and harmonious life of an amiable Libra, pretending and peacemaking may as well be the same thing.

Libras are often accused of being fake because they are so good at pretending around people they absolutely dislike, but in the minds of this bubbly sign they are just being peaceable.

This star sign often leaves everyone in their friendship group wondering what the hell is wrong with them, because they will show up with that girl they once said was a bitch, or will be extra friendly to that guy everyone knows is a toxic douche. Its just who they are.

7. The Trendy Gworls of The Star Signs

Looking good is one thing a Libra does best. Whether its a laidback indoor gathering or an impromptu movie date, this star sign will still manage to turn heads in casuals.

This easy going air sign always wants to look good and would appreciate a significant other that’s fashion-conscious as well. Libras aren’t over the top like Leos, so they aren’t huge fans of flashy clothing. They love to keep things simple and chic.

Read: Hear Ye, Hear Ye! It’s Leo Season: What You Should Know Before Dating These Astrological Divas

8. They *Hate* Confrontation

Libras hate confrontation. They will either choose to withdraw from the situation or apologize in an attempt to sweep things under the carpet.

The downside to this trait of theirs is that they can be dodgy, especially when important and beneficial topics are about to be broached. Libras sometimes see constructive criticism as a promising confrontation and need to understand that them sweeping things under the carpet too often and avoiding certain conversations can destroy their relationships with people.

Happy Libra season everyone! Don’t forget to give that Libra in your life some baby girl treatment on their special day.