If you were born between May 21st and June 20th, then congratu-freaking-lations, you’re a Gemini! I feel like Gemini’s are the most talked about of all the zodiac signs, what is it about this air sign that’s so unpredictable, flighty and enchanting? Gemini’s are hands down the life of the party of all the signs, in fact they are the undisputed crazies of the zodiac signs.
There’s never a dull moment with a Gemini on your squad, they are said to have a dual nature that makes them pretty spontaneous and flexible, unlike some signs that are saddled with dominant traits. People that fall under this zodiac sign are ruled by Mercury (the messenger of the Gods) which makes them good at processing information, speaking, communicating and writing.
You’re most likely to connect with this sign as a friend than a partner because they are so hard to pin down, they have some kind of phobia for commitment. Sagittarius, Aquarius and Libras are super compatible with Gemini’s.
This sign can be pretty silly, bubbly, cold, curious, nosy, passionate and fast paced in almost everything they do, you basically can’t put a finger on a Gemini, they are likely to switch up on you in an instant. If you’re looking for warm fuzzy feelings, submissiveness, sensitivity and commitment, then you shouldn’t look to a Gemini, because they will most likely break your heart. This sign is at the top of the list when it comes to casual hook ups followed by surprise surprise, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius.
You basically need some kind of map or guide in figuring out this sign because they can be very impulsive beings, so here’s everything you need to know before hooking up with a Gemini.
- They Are Super Analytical
The brain activity of this sign is out the roof. Gemini’s are super intelligent and overly analytical, which can make decision making for this sign pretty agonizing. Making big life decisions for this sign can be torturous as they tend to get nervous or a tad bit too anxious which can make them sometimes impulsive or indecisive.
On the bright side if you’re hooking up with a Gemini, they’ll put in a lot of thought in making you smile, they do have a charming way with words and if your interests or hobbies are distinct you can count on this sign to read up on them to find a common ground with you. Gemini’s are also curious; they’ll think of different ways to turn you on and keep things exciting in the sheets.
- The Best Smooth Talkers You’ll Ever Meet
Remember what I said about Gemini’s having a charming way with words? Well this sign is an absolute smooth talker, they are after all ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. Gemini’s are extremely chatty but not annoyingly talkative. They are usually geared with clever quips during conversations that will leave you intrigued by their command of words.
People born under this sign are super skilled at telling people what they want to hear, which can be interpreted by some as leading people on.
The head of this sign is practically swimming with ideas, opinions and thoughts. Gemini’s have some kind of reverence for conversations, this trait of theirs shines through even during small talk. They are generally outgoing and fun, you’ll never get caught up in boredom with a Gemini partner.
- They Crave Variety
Ever heard that variety is the spice of life? Gemini’s own and love this spice. They hate routines and repetitions. They crave change and are very adaptable, I guess we can link their love for diversity to their dual nature. Gemini’s make adventurous lovers, although they don’t really like making commitments.
When it comes to sex, they enjoy switching things up. Gemini’s love to explore unknown territory; they love making a ton of friends but get overwhelmed quickly by the emotional demands of maintaining such relationships and end up not speaking to most of these people. This sign could spend a great deal of time with different lovers until they find the right one.
- They *Really* Love Their Own Space
Gemini’s love having their own space and are highly independent signs, they wouldn’t give up any part of themselves for anyone and usually thrive in relationships where they can do them and you can do you.
People under this sign like to feel like they can hold their fort in a relationship, they love their independence and like to feel like they have the liberty to hop from one adventure to another. They dislike being alone and hate being confined.
- Party Animals
This sign is extremely social. Due to their communicative nature, their calendars are literally riddled with events after events. Gemini’s like being in settings where they can diversify their friendship groups and exercise their communication skills.
Gemini partners are most likely to go along with any plan, but don’t be disappointed if they cancel last minute, remember they can be pretty unpredictable. They are also good party planners; your wildest nights would definitely include this whimsical twin sign.
- Queens & Kings Of Sending Mixed Messages
At early stages of a relationship with a Gemini, this point can be the hardest to deal with. This twin sign tends to unknowingly send mixed messages; one minute they’re into you and the next they’re uninterested.
The truth is due to their active nature, they are usually communicating with a lot of people at the same time and are also trying to juggle other activities at once, that brings us back to this point, Gemini’s love to make a lot of new friends but lack the emotional demands for maintaining such relationships. This sign loves to multitask but they do not realize that it can be interpreted as them being indifferent.
So, the early stages of your relationship with this sign can be exasperating because one minute they are engaging and the next they are unconcerned. At this stage it’s crucial for you not to get jealous or take offence, if you can go with the flow and try not to take things personal, then you should be able to smoothly get past this stage.
- They Can Be Irresponsible
The most frustrating trait of this sign, is their lack of accountability. Gemini’s are so good at giving wordy excuses, they always have an explanation for their shortcomings and come off as immature most of the time. A simple “I’m sorry” or “I was wrong” just might kill this sign.
This trait is deeply rooted in their impulsiveness and lack of commitment, this makes it sometimes difficult for them to set their goals in motion. They tend to lose focus or interest in their tasks and move on to something else.
- They Can Be Huge Gossips
Due to their inquisitive nature, this sign can be a little nosy, they want to know everything. They love scandalous and salacious gossip. We kind of all have some levels of nosiness, so this sign isn’t the only one that loves juicy gossip.
However, Gemini’s want to know everybody’s gist, being the highly curious beings that they are.
- They Are Very Specific
From their clothes to their prospective partners, Gemini’s are pretty specific. This sign knows what they want and how they want it, so if they like you, then you can rest easy that you meet every single one of their criteria.
This sign is also said to be blunt; they appreciate you going straight to the point and not beating around the bush. If there’s something a Gemini feels they need to address, they’ll communicate it to you clearly.
- They Intellectualize Their Emotions
Gemini’s are kind of practical when it comes to how they feel. They can always come up with a logical explanation of why they feel a certain kind of way. This sign is basically wary of mood spoilers, they have an ability to ignore negative emotions in favor of happier ones.
So, if you’re looking for a partner that will just listen to you cry and let you wallow in self-pity when you’re under the weather, then this sign would most likely drive you crazy with their tendencies to understand or explain feelings away. A Gemini is most likely going to disappear into thin air if you start crying hysterically or getting hopelessly emotional.
These are basically everything you need to know before hooking up with a Gemini. You can count on this sign not to get clingy or too emotionally invested, and if you love being kept on your toes then look no further than a Gemini partner. Their spontaneity and flightiness would keep you forever enchanted.