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5 Nigerian Women Share The Honest Reasons They Cheated On Their Partners

Immanuella Isiuwe by Immanuella Isiuwe
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Many people would argue that there is never a valid reason to cheat on someone you love.

I’m not a saint, neither am I judging the people that do cheat, but it makes you wonder.. can cheating ever be justified?

The truth is, people cheat for different reasons; lack of attention, feeling unwanted and unsatisfied and so many other reasons.

I spoke with 5 Nigerian women who shared the brutal honest reasons why they have been unfaithful.

Let’s get to it, shall we? Here’s what they had to say:


So, What’s Your Name?

Hahn.

Mo.

Ruky.

Tito.

Kiva.

Have You Ever Cheated On Your Partner?

Hahn: Yup!

Mo: Yes o.

Ruky: Lol, yeah.

Tito: Yes.

Kiva: Yes.

What Is The Pettiest Reason You Have Cheated On Someone? Give Me All The (Juicy) Details!

Hahn:

I wanted to talk one night and he ignored me because he was “busy”.

My ex (not really ex boyfriend but someone I used to f*ck around with) was online so I sent him a message and it led to a great conversation, heavy flirting and sexting.

He invited me over for lunch in his office the next day and I went, we had sex in his office.

Mo:

It felt like an escape from what I was used to.

I wanted to experience what it would feel like being with someone else outside my man. Honestly, it was an action born out of pure curiosity.

Plus, me and my man were not on good terms at the time; talk about perfect timing to satisfy my curiosity.

I know it’s a weird reason but yeah, that was what it was.

Ruky:

The problem was he didn’t show enough care even when I was so down for him.

I don’t know what his problem was.

He believed that I would manipulate him like his ex did. Apparently that was traumatic for him.

But, hello? I was already in love with him.

Anyway, his paranoia somehow bugged me to the point where I decided to cheat on him.

It was the perfect way to guilt trip myself into leaving him.

Tito:

Money.

Kavi:

He kept refusing to make it official and I’m big on that, before I start hearing we’re not even official.

That’s honestly the worst thing. It really irks me.

He would tell guys it’s just vibes and I wasn’t down with that. A guy tried to hit on me in his presence and he wasn’t even bothered.

How Did You Cheat? What Did You Do?

Hahn:

There was this guy I was crushing on before I got into my relationship so I had to cut him off.

One day he called me to meet up, I had no intention of doing anything at all but we kissed and eventually had sex.

It was amazing, he had the best dick! I honestly believe I got addicted to having sex with him. We even did it on school premises.

I’m not going to lie. I had the time of my life.

Mo:

We started by sexting, and eventually had sex.

Ruky:

We did everything, like we were in a relationship. We made out, went on dates and even gifted each other. Everything apart from actual sex.

Tito:

Sex.

Kavi:

I made out intensely with one of his friends.

Did Your Partner Find Out?

Hahn:

I ended things with the person I was cheating with because he lied to me about not having more one sex partner.

Yes, I told him (my partner) myself.

Mo:

Yup.

Ruky:

He found out. I wasn’t smart enough to clear every trace so yeah, he found out and there was a bit of back and forth, but the phase passed.

Tito:

Nah.

Kavi:

He found out and he didn’t show any emotion, it pissed me off!

Would You Do It Again?

Hahn:

No.

Mo:

Well, said partner was kind of trash, so yeah I would.

Ruky:

No!

Tito:

Yes.

Kavi:

Maybe not.
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Comments 2

  1. Quam Ajibola says:
    1 year ago

    Very beautiful write up.

    Reply
  2. Anonymous says:
    1 year ago

    Lovely read..but tito was too static
    One word answers 🙄

    Reply

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