There is something powerful about girl-to-girl advice- it’s real, it’s relatable and it’s exactly what you need to navigate campus life. Whether it’s navigating messy roommate situations or balancing your social and academic life, there’s no better compass than those who’ve already been there, done that.
Inspired by the trending “girl-to-girl” advice thread on X (formerly Twitter), we’ve pulled together a curated list of real, practical, unfiltered tips to help you conquer university life like a pro.
Think about it: “What’s something you wish someone had told you before stepping onto campus?”

You no longer have to worry about this because we’ve got you covered. We will be spilling all the girl-to-girl wisdom to help you thrive and sidestep those tricky situations.
1. It’s okay to not be close friends with your roommate:
We all dream about the perfect roommate, someone who becomes your best friend, shares snacks, and binge-watches Netflix with you. But let’s be real, that’s not always the case. Sometimes, your roommate is just… your roommate – and that’s okay.
You don’t have to be besties or even close friends to make things work. What matters most is mutual respect. Don’t feel like you have to let things slide (like letting them leave messes or cross boundaries) just because you’re afraid of creating tension. Ironically, trying to keep the peace by ignoring issues can make things worse in the long run.
It’s important to set boundaries and speak up when something bothers you. You’re not obligated to share every detail of your life or force a relationship that isn’t there. If your roommate doens’t want that kind of connection, don’t sweat it. Your peace of mind is worth more than forcing a friendship that just isn’t meant to be.
2. Don’t make your partner your whole world:
I get it—you’re in your first serious relationship, and you’re head over heels in love. Maybe you’re even living together, practically glued at the hip. It feels amazing to see each other 24/7, and it seems like your relationship is blossoming. But trust me, you need to carve out space for yourself. You can’t make your partner your everything, no matter how great things are.
Make sure you’re still doing your own thing—spend time with your friends, focus on your studies (because, let’s not forget, that’s why you’re here!), and keep up with your hobbies. I’ve seen too many girls lose themselves in their relationships, only to realize they left no room for anything else in their lives. And believe me, babe, you don’t want to be that person. You exist outside of that relationship!
3. Network:
I can’t stress this enough—university is one of the best places to meet people who can teach you things your lecturers never will. Build connections with older women who’ve been through it all—they’re an invaluable source of advice and wisdom. Beyond that, use your time here to find mentors in your field and build meaningful relationships. The friendships and professional contacts you make in uni can open doors for you long after you graduate.
4. Learn more always:
There’s always more to learn, and you should take full advantage of that while you’re in university. Don’t just rely on what your lecturers teach you—go beyond the classroom. Take extra courses, explore different subjects, and dive into things that spark your interest. The world is changing fast, and having diverse skills will only help you in the long run. You might not even end up working with what you studied, so why not broaden your horizons while you can?
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5. Eat and cook healthy:
If you have access to a kitchen, make use of it! Cooking your own meals is not only healthier but can also be a fun way to unwind. And I’m not saying you have to live off salads or follow some strict diet plan—just try to make sure the food you’re eating is good for your body. Also, remember you can save a whole lot of money, by cooking your meals yourself. If you’re not big on cooking, that’s okay too—just be mindful of what you’re putting into your body. The food you eat now will have a big impact on how you feel and function, both in uni and beyond.
6. Don’t date your course mate:
Trust me, it’s not worth it. Dating a course mate or someone from your dorm is a recipe for drama. If things go south, you’ll still have to see that person every day, and the awkwardness (and gossip) will be real. If you’re a private person, this will only bring unnecessary stress into your life. If you do date that person, be ready to share the relationship with everyone around you because they will all be invested in the tea. The only time I’d say go for it is if you’re sure you can handle the fallout and truly care about the person. Otherwise, save yourself the headache and protect your peace
Hope you found these tips helpful!