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So, We Made A Sex Bucket List

The Editors by The Editors
in A Girls Guide, Sex & Relationships
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Call us old fashioned, but we made a sex bucket list! 

For the days when you’re feeling a lil’ adventurous and kinky, we want you to refer to this list. Whether it’s role playing, trying different Kamasutra sex positions or using good ol’ Kegel balls, this is your go-to.

More importantly, remember to always practice safe sex. Especially if it’s random, spontaneous sex with a stranger or someone you don’t know or trust enough to have raw sex with. 

What? it happens. It’s also about to be summertime, and we’ve been in a pandemic.

To be on the safe side, you can put a condom in a secret spot in your wallet or purse so if anyone ever hits you with the “I don’t have a condom” line, you whip yours out like a badge of honor (we’ll be very proud).

Alright so let’s get to this list, shall we?


1. Try the Kivin Method Oral Sex Technique

This is basically sideways oral sex. When it comes to giving head, most of what we see in porn and movies is the partner / lover positioned straight between the other person’s legs, right?

The Kivin method has the giving partner positioned sideways, and licking across the clitoris.

Can’t paint a picture? Check this out.

This oral sex method claims to make women orgasm in three minutes or less, and although neither of our editors are yet to actually try this technique, we’re wondering if that’s even realistic.

Like, 3 minutes or less?

Really?

If you tick this off the bucket list, let us know how it goes!

2. 34 + 35 = The 69 Position

This is an oldie, but sometimes a goodie.

Truth be told, this position can be annoying because how are you supposed to concentrate when you’re being eaten out? it’s a lot of work really, but can be very pleasurable. I mean it’s double oral sex, that’s a win, right?

If you’re yet to try this, you definitely should.

3. Give An Erotic Massage

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Erotic massage is the best way to connect physically and emotionally, and is also a great way to turn someone on.

Massages in general are so sensual, now spice it up with scented candles, the right atmosphere and some massage lotions and you’re good to go.

It sounds so sexy, doesn’t it?

4. Have Shower Sex – But Be Careful! 

Shower sex can be all kinds of fun, but only if you don’t die.

Seriously. We all know showers are already the most accident prone places, so safety first.

5. Have Sex Outdoors Or In Public

The thrill of doing something naughty, and knowing you could potentially get caught by literally anyone is so thrilling and sexy.

Read: What A Time To Ride: Car Sex Basics

6. Try Role Playing

For the fun of it, try role playing. It can be a huge laugh between you and your partner, or it can be really really sexy.

It’s also a chance to play dress up. Talk to your partner and find out what excites them sexually. You could role play as a sexy non-English speaking maid, or as a tv character, the options are endless.

7. Try Kegel Balls

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If you’ve seen Fifty Shades of Grey like we’re sure you have, you’ll remember the scene where Christian inserted a metal ball into Anna’s vagina right before they went off to that masked ball.

Remember?

Yes, that one. Kegel balls like you’ve already realized, is inserted internally and stimulates you slowly and gently while you go about your everyday business. Amazing, right? plus they are also designed to train and exercise your vagina muscles.

8. Use Sex Toys

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There’s nothing sexier than making your partner watch you make yourself orgasm. Whenever you’re feeling extra kinky, grab your favorite sex toy and make them take note of how well you pleasure yourself! (wink).

9. Watch Porn Together

Well, good porn can be fun and exciting. Emphasis on good porn, not the unethically, unrealistic kinds where women clearly don’t look like they are enjoying themselves. Watching porn with the person you’re sleeping with can be so hot because it gives you both ideas on new things to try and explore.

10. Have Sex on A Plane

Join the mile high club, ba-byyy! we didn’t send you sha, but you can’t deny that it will make a great story to tell.

11. Have A Threesome

Of course you saw this one coming. Threesome’s are high up on everyone’s general life bucket list.

Maybe not everyone actually, some people can’t stand the thought of a third party during sexy time, while some others live for the thrill and excitement.

Where do you fall under?

If you’re feeling adventurous and you want to have a threesome, make sure communication between all parties is crystal clear. Be vocal about your boundaries and limits.

12. Use Sex Anal Toys

If you’re curious about anal sex but too scared to go all the way and aren’t sure where to exactly start from, we recommend anal sex toys. You can start slow with anal fingering, or even better, with anal sex toys like silicone anal beads.

13. Have Sex In A Pool

In a private pool, please. If you’ve tried this, we are very shamelessly curious to know how it went.

14. Get Dressed In Erotic Lingerie

There’s something very sexy about having sex in your lingerie, amiright?

Erotic lingerie can range from cute girl next door lacy underwear to cupless bras to latex wear. So many options!

Fun fact about cupless bras: it leaves your breasts and nipples free to be stimulated. Do with that information what you will sis.

15. Try Pegging

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If you’re feeling bold and daring, and your partner is comfortable and willing to try this with you, Pegging is when a woman penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo. How fun and dominating does that sound?


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