Think of this article as your road map to getting the most out of your (favorite) sex toy.
Like we always say, Masturbation is healthy and solo sex is very necessary. Think of it as an act of self care; a way to pleasure and explore yourself in ways no one ever has. What’s more fun than that?
Besides, getting more pleasure means less stress and better sleep!
Bullet vibrators are a great place to start if you have little to no experience using a sex toy; they are small (but very mighty), easy to clean, easy to hide (if you’re not one to brag or show off your toys), and inexpensive. You can get a bullet vibrator as cheap as N5000 or less!
Here’s what you need to know on how to have the best absolute time with your bullet vibrator.
Basic Rules: How To Use A Vibrator
- First things first, you always want to start slow. I know based on certain movies we have seen, a lot of us might believe that using a toy to the highest intensity means even more pleasure, but that isn’t necessarily true. Whether you’re a beginner, or you’re more experienced, start out by putting your vibrator on the lowest setting, and start slow and gentle. Stimulate yourself lightly to get your body and your erogenous zones warmed up. Imagine turning on your vibrator and immediately putting it on the highest setting .. no, sis. You want to take your time. What’s the rush? it’s solo sex ba-by! no one is in a hurry to orgasm, so don’t be in a rush as this may cause you discomfort and pain if you fly right to full beast mode. Most vibrators offer various levels of intensity as well as different vibrational patterns, so you definitely want to take your time so you’re able to find out what pattern you like/prefer before choosing a more powerful buzz.
- Lube is so important during sex. We can’t stress this enough. We really can’t, which is why we dedicated a whole article to the importance of it (you’re welcs). Lube can heighten sensations, and is a great pal to have during solo sex because it can help glide your vibrator easily and with more ease. Make sure whatever lube you decide to use is water based, as this will help keep UTI’s and yeast infections away.
- Wanna know the best part about
fuckingmaking lovesolo sex? how creative you can get. Move your hips to the rhythm you want and experiment with how you want to position yourself. Do you – literally. You can also try using your vibrator all over your body, and not just your usual go-to areas like your neck, nipples and clit. We all have different erogenous zones, explore! it could be your knees, ears, even your inner thighs. Basically any area on your body that you think is sensitive, you can try your vibrator on.
How To Use A Bullet Vibrator
Bullet vibrators are generally pretty small and portable, and are designed primarily for clitoral stimulation. They are very light and can fit in just about anything. Yes, even your smallest purse can carry this vibrator, and that’s one of the best things about the bullet vibrator! how light, discreet, pocket-sized and powerful it is.
Don’t allow the size fool you sha. Like I said, these vibrators are powerful, and because of how its shaped, they are great for really precise stimulation. Try tracing the tip all over your vulva to discover new sensitive spots. Bullet vibrators come with lots of speed settings, so have fun exploring!
While using, don’t just hold the tip against your erogenous zones. There are other ways to have fun with your bullet; you can hold it horizontally to enjoy the vibrations across a broader area. This is great if your vag is sensitive or if you prefer less intense stimulation.
Don’t forget to use a lot of lube (sometimes, your WAP might need the extra moistness). Again, using lube doesn’t mean you aren’t ”wet enough” down there. In fact, how wet you get during sex, whether solo or with a partner, can be affected by so many things from your hormones to how much time you have to get turned on. See why foreplay is so very important? there is absolutely no shame in using lube, it really does make everything feel better anyway, and it also prevents soreness.
A good lubricant enhances any sexual experience.
Read: If You Aren’t Having Sex With Lube, You’re Dulling
Another great thing about the bullet vibrator is, you can use it with your other sex toys, or with a partner, or both!
I know introducing sex toys during sex with someone else can be a bit intimidating, but this vibrator is a great toy to start with because of how small it is. Ask your partner to hold it lightly against your clitoris, and then instruct them to move it around and increase the speed. However you like it. You can even hold the toy against your clit during (penetrative) sex to increase your chances of having an orgasm.
If your partner is a man, you can also try using the vibrator gently on his balls or perineum while you give him a blow job.
If you’re into shower sex, there are a lot of waterproof bullets out there that are perfect for it. To be sure its safe to take yours into the bathroom, check the description on the packaging, or if you’re ordering online check the product details. It needs to read ”submersible”, and not just ”splash proof”.
Bullet vibrators may be cute and a lot smaller than your larger vibrators, like the Rabbit or Wand, but it isn’t to be underestimated .. clearly.
Hope you have fun giving yourself multiple orgasms!
