Though drug store chocolates, a teddy bear and roses placed in a red gift box is well and good, the best Valentine’s gifts for her require just a little more intention and effort. Whether you’re looking for something special for your girlfriend, crush, wife or bestie, we’ve got you covered with gift suggestions that will truly mean the world to her.
A Personalized or Custom Item
When in doubt, go with an item that is personalized just for your lover. Jewelry engraved with sentimental words, a photo book recounting your favourite moments together, a deep handwritten letter or a his and hers gift item, can count way more than a super expensive impersonal gift will ever do.
An unforgettable experience accompanied with real quality time
Ditch material gifts an opt for an experience you and your girl will both enjoy immensely. A lot of men have mastered being around their partner without actually being present in the moment—Valentine’s day is not the day to pull that stunt. So, whatever adventure you choose to explore with your lover: a staycation at a resort, her favorite artist’s music concert, a 5-star restaurant y’all have never been to, a spa day, a paint and sip date or a rave that bangs, make sure you join her in soaking up the moment, it genuinely adds to her joy.
Wigs
Nigerian women love switching things up–they don’t play about their wigs. Whether it’s a chic bob, bone straight or some curly tresses, just make sure it’s something she doesn’t already have in her line up.
Tech Gadgets
Think long and hard about an area in your woman’s life that can be made easier with a tech gadget. If she creates content get her: the latest smartphone or a good ring light. If she enjoys cooking get her: a powerful blender or an airfryer. If she loves to explore new places: a polaroid camera works. If she loves to read books on the go: a kindle. If she loves music: sleek wireless earbuds will be perfect. If she’s a gym freak: a smart watch. Making life easier for her through technology is a great way to show how much you love her.
Sex That Ends With An Orgasm
There’s no better day than Valentine’s to contribute your quota to bridging the unfair gender orgasm gap. Seriously, it’s an amazing day for you to be a thoughtful and superb lover in bed. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t waking up on the same bed as she is, start getting her ready for playtime by being extra sweet and thoughtful once you know she’s up—foreplay doesn’t need to begin when y’all are getting naked. So, shower her with cute morning greetings, surprises or kisses. Be fluent in her love language throughout the day. Your goal should be to remove all stressors from her day, so that she can focus on feeling wanted and being the most sensual version of herself.
Before you get to going down and dirty, make sure you’ve read some 21 Mag Sex articles so that you’re well prepared to satisfy her—she shouldn’t be the only one learning how best to please you. During physical foreplay, spend extra time stimulating her erogenous zones—whip out a sex toy if need be. Listen to her instructions on what to do to get her to climax (it isn’t always about penetration). You shouldn’t finish, if she hasn’t finished.
A full day of pampering
Tell her to cancel her plans for the day then pay for her to get her hair, lashes and nails done. After which, treat her to a spa day so that she can release all the stress you most likely put her through. Top the day up by taking her out to eat in an exquisite restaurant in a gorgeous dress you picked specially for her. You can tweak this plan by opting to do some other things she personally defines as ‘self-care’ Thank us later.
Flowers–but she must have mentioned wanting them
It’s not every Nigerian woman that will appreciate a bouquet of flowers, so before presenting flowers to her, make sure it is something she actually desires—else she might spend the rest of V-day calculating how many pairs of shoes those rose stems can buy.
If your girl loves flowers, ditch the last-minute generic one-type flower bouquet. Opt for flowers she has specifically gushed about in the past, high-end preserved roses that last up to a year or a spectacular fresh flower arrangement.
A clothing item that has been on her wishlist forever
For many women, Valentine’s Day is the perfect occasion to receive that coveted clothing item they’ve had on their wish list. A luxury handbag, such as a sleek designer tote or a chic crossbody. Shoes are also a top contender—whether it’s a pair of stylish heels or trendy sneakers, Additionally, a beautiful dress that suits her style, whether it’s a timeless little black dress or a flirty floral number. These items aren’t just about fashion; they’re about showing her that you know her style and what would makes her feel truly beautiful.
Your bank card and pin
If you’re still wondering what to get your babe for Valentine’s day, fret no more because sometimes, the best Valentine’s gift isn’t arranged in a bouquet or wrapped in a bow, it’s inserted into an ATM, POS or Paystack payment form—give your babe your bank card and pin.
Depositing the money into her account just won’t do, because now you’re stressing your brain wondering how much is enough to show her her worth to you. It’s best you furnish her with your bank details and let her be the one to reveal how much she thinks you value her.
Peace of mind—the gift that keeps giving
From Valentine’s day onwards, your love wants me to tell you: enough is enough! If y’all live together, help around the house—some cooked meals in the fridge, a clean bedroom or uninterrupted sleep is sometimes way better than any material gift. Be on your best behaviour when you’re outside, stop commenting on other women’s Instagram post (you’re not a girls girl), be a better feminist ally, etc. Just stop stressing that woman out—she’s just a girl.
