Many people plan various activities for Valentine’s Day, including fancy dates, romantic presents, spa days and surprise proposals. Another aspect couples look forward to is the high likelihood of intimacy that night. From wax appointments to buying new lingerie, a lot of women prepare to set the perfect mood, aiming for a sensual sexual experience with their partners or lovers on the day.
As a firm advocate for women getting what they want, this article is dedicated to ensuring mind-blowing sex on any day, be it Valentine’s Day or any ordinary day. In this article, explore a curated list of sex positions that are so intimate they could make you blush or cum. Hopefully, it’s the latter.
Curious? Keep reading!
The Classic Missionary
I know a lot of people sh-t on this position for a lot of good reasons. I also know a good number of y’all consider this too vanilla, but I don’t know… Maybe it depends on the person, but I’ve had moments where missionary felt like the softest caress while simultaneously being the most intense burst of mind-numbing ecstasy.
Maybe it’s having his voice and breath so close to my face, or it’s being almost shrouded between his arms, propped up beside my head or shoulders to keep his weight off me. It might be the feel of him starting to slide inside me, that twinge of discomfort that quickly dissolves to pleasure so heady I feel an insane rush when I hear that first deep grunt. Maybe it’s the power I feel watching him come undone right above me. Maybe all of that is what does it for me, but my oh my can you really deny just how intimate this position can get?
Missionary (With Two Vulvas)
Picture a classic missionary position with you and a person with a penis or strap-on. You would lay on your back facing the ceiling while your partner gets on top and inserts their penis or strap-on into your vagina. When this position involves two people with vulvas, it starts the same: you or your partner lies on their back, and the other person gets on top. The difference here is you (the top) won’t lie between both her (the bottom’s) legs. The bottom will slip one of her thighs between the top’s legs. Essentially, you would both have your thighs pressed against each other’s clit. For added pressure, the bottom can lift their thigh, allowing the top’s clit to press further into the bottom’s thigh.
This position is perfect if you want to watch the kaleidoscope of emotions run through your partner’s face. You will hear every strained order or muttered passing thought from heavy breathing to moans, groans, and possibly dirty talk. The person below also has clear and open access to their partner’s back and ass. If your partner likes it a little rough, trust me when I say grabbing onto her bum while she kneads into your thigh will give her a high so mind-blowing she won’t be able to catch her breath.
The Lovely Lap Dance
Gently lower your partner to the bed, couch, desk, counter or wherever’s doing it for you rn. Make sure they are at the edge of whatever they’re sitting on. When they are comfortable, turn until your back faces them and lower yourself to their thigh. Make sure you’re both comfortable with the thigh you’re about to straddle. While going down, gently (or roughly…yk, do you, sis) spread your legs to allow your clit press down on your partner’s thigh. Slide all the way back until your ass/the back of your thigh presses against their clit.
This position is as sexy as it is for a lot of reasons. One, your clit and its 8000 nerves are getting a good dose of what they’ve been aching for. Simultaneously, you lean into your partner and lower the back of your head to their shoulders. If you’re feeling like it, you can gently turn to your side and lay kisses and bites across their neck. Imagine the warmth between your legs as your partner effortlessly reaches over to engage in nipple play.
This particular position can get almost feral, possibly revealing a side of your partner and yourself that may be new to you. More often than not, it’s hot af.
Seated Reverse Cowgirl
Much like the lovely lap dance, have your partner sit at the edge of wherever you are and turn your back to them. After a lot of foreplay, gently lower yourself onto their penis or strap-on and place your bum on their thighs.
If you enjoy deep penetrations, this position is known to hit all the right spots. Hold on to whatever you can and slide up and down. The openness of the position can quickly make you very turned on, and the eroticism of the moment can become all-consuming. My advice? Let it. If you’re sure you’re ready for it, feel everything. If you want to feel a little more, pause sliding up and down and, at some point, grind against your partner while remaining in the same position.
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The Lotus
You or your partner sit on a flat surface (the bed, floor, etc) with your legs crisscrossed. While facing your partner, sit on their lap, get as close as possible, and wrap your legs around their torso. After a copious amount of foreplay and lube, take hold of your partner’s penis and, at your pace, start gently inserting it into your vagina. Have your partner tuck their legs under you, supporting your weight.
This position is so intimate because it opens you and your partner’s hearts to each other. That skin-to-skin contact can be everything!
The Sexy Spider (Lotus)
I’m sure we can all see how this position easily works for two people with vulvas as well. Instead of a penis going into a vagina or any of the other variations, this will simply be vagina to vagina or a bit more accurately, vagina to pelvic bone and vice versa.
Besides inducing intimacy that is just off the charts, this position requires a pretty interesting amount of strength to keep your clits as pressed against each other as you need because the more you ride that wave, the more you can’t get enough of each other. It is one of the many earth-shattering sexual experiences in a sapphic’s life.
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