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You know that popular saying “three is a crowd”.. is it really?
We spoke to two womxn about their experiences with having a threesome. The thing is, real life isn’t a movie and what we see isn’t always what it seems. If we’re being entirely honest with ourselves, movies lie, a lot. Especially when it comes to sex they make it look so easy, when in real life there’s awkwardness and tension. Sex isn’t supposed to be neat and straight to the point, our bodies are full of surprises, anything can happen; farts, queefs, you name it.
Read: 4 Big Fat Lies Hollywood Has Told Us About Sex
How Old Are You Now, And How Old Were You When You Had A Threesome For The First Time?
Woman A: “I’m 24 currently. I was 23 when I had my first threesome.”
Woman B: “I’m 22. I had a threesome for the first time when I was 19.”
Were You Single Or In A Relationship? And Who Was In The Threesome?
Woman A: “So I was in a casual relationship then, and we wanted to try something new. It was me, the guy I was seeing and a girl I knew.”
Woman B: “I was single af. It was a close female friend of mine, a guy we were both into and myself.”
What Was The Process Like Choosing The Other Person Involved, Was It Awkward?
Woman A: “My fuck buddy and I were trying to spice things up, so it was a mutual decision. It wasn’t hard choosing the third person because I had a friend I knew would be down with it, and she was.”
Woman B: “My friend and I both had our eyes on someone, so we agreed to try. I’m the one who spoke to him the night before it happened, and I was hoping he would say no and want to get with just me instead, but he was so thrilled about it.”
Was There Anything You Were Nervous About Before It Happened, And Where Did You Do It?
Woman A: “Omo, my mind wandered. I started thinking “what if the other girl is so good, and they both takeover and I’m left there like an idiot”. I was really nervous, it happened at my fuck buddy’s house.”
Woman B: “I was nervous because I had never been with a woman sexually, so I wasn’t sure what to expect. Plus, this was my friend! The funny thing though, is it all eventually happened so quick. We did it at the guy’s house.”
So, How Did It Start? We Want Details!
Woman A: “So we both met at my fuck buddy’s house and I was a little awkward at first, but we got so drunk and I let loose. I made the first move and kissed my friend.”
Woman B: “I went to the guy’s house first and we had oral sex before my friend came so I was definitely in the mood. Once my friend got there, it all happened so quick.”
So, What Happened After That? Details!
Woman A: :It was a good idea to get drunk first because I wasn’t nervous at all. We both took turns with my F buddy, and it was amazing. I came so many times. My friend went down on me a lot and touched me while he watched. It went on till we were all tired, so it was quite the experience.”
Woman B: “My friend and I didn’t do much together. For me and the guy it was mostly cowgirl and doggy positions. There was actually a connection between me and him, and I think my friend felt it. She left before me, and then me and the guy continued having sex.”
Did It Go The Way You Wanted, And What Was Your Most Exciting And Least Exciting Part Of It?
Woman A: “I came more than once, so yes. It was exciting because we were all into it and there wasn’t any awkwardness. Everything was exciting.”
Woman B: “Not really, but it was fun for me. I think my friend felt left out so I felt weird. It was hard having sex with two people, especially since I’m as straight as they come.”
What Would You Say Are The Best Positions For Threesomes, And What Advice Would You Give To People Considering Having One?
Woman A: “Having someone riding him while the other person is sitting on his face, that way everyone is being pleasured. My advice would be to do it with someone you’re close to and someone you trust.”
Woman B: “Any position works, just make sure it’s one you like. Threesomes are actually a big decision, so make sure you don’t rush into it so you don’t end up regretting it. Take your time.”
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