Quiz: What is Your Sex Personality Type?

We’re familiar with attachment styles and love languages, but when it comes to our personalities during sex, there’s not much terminology beyond the basic “kinky” or “vanilla.”

If you’ve read our Sex Personality article then you’re probably wondering where you fit in. Take the quiz below to determine your Sex Personality Type;

What Does Sex Mean to You?

A Stress reliever

A fun activity

An exchange of pleasure

The giving of pleasure to my partner

A test of trust

Passion given form

An indulgence in physical pleasure

A priority

A Declaration of Love

A way to spiritually connect with a person or people

An adventure

Would You Have Sex on the First Date?

Yes, it's a great stress reliever

Absolutely! I love exploring new experiences

Only if it's a fair trade of desires

Yes, I find joy in giving pleasure to my partner

It depends on establishing trust

Yes, if it's a passionate connection

Obviously lol

Of course, it's a top priority

No, it takes a lot for me to open myself to someone like that

Yes, as a way to spiritually connect

Definitely, it's an adventurous thrill

Where’s the Most Public or ‘Inappropriate' Place You’ve Ever Had Sex?

The office bathroom. It was a really difficult day

The back seat of my car

In a public park

A movie theatre. My partner wanted it

In a secluded area of a hiking trail

The kitchen table

In a hot tub or swimming pool

A bridge much like the third mainland bridge

On the beach

A church or place of worship

At a concert

Do You Consider Yourself More Traditional or Unconventional in the Bedroom?

Traditional, focusing on stress relief

Unconventional, always up for exploration

Balanced, enjoying a fair trade

More traditional in giving pleasure

Traditional, valuing a secure connection

Unconventional, seeking passionate moments

I'm unconventional by nature

Unconventional, making it a top priority

Traditional, emphasizing emotional connection

Unconventional, seeking a spiritual connection

Very unconventional, always seeking a thrill

Do you Think Love is Needed to Have a Fulfilling Sex Life?

No, it's about stress relief

No, as long as it's fun and explorative

Yes, a fair exchange of love and pleasure

Yes, giving pleasure is an expression of love

Yes, love and trust are essential

Not really. Passion alone can be enough

No, it's about the physical pleasure and enjoyment

Yes, it's a major priority in a relationship

Yes, love is crucial for a fulfilling sex life

I don’t think so. You can connect on a spiritual/deeper level without being in love

No, it's more about the thrill and adventure

How Do You Feel About Trying New Sexual Techniques or Positions?

I'm open to trying new things for stress relief

I love experimenting and trying new techniques

I'm willing to try if it's a mutually satisfying experience

I'm open to trying anything that pleases my partner

I prefer sticking to what feels safe and comfortable

I enjoy trying new techniques for a more intense connection

I'm always excited to try new techniques that enhance physical pleasure

I'm open to trying new things to maintain a satisfying sex life

I prefer intimate and familiar techniques with emotional connection

I'm open to trying techniques with a spiritual dimension

I love exploring new and adventurous sexual techniques

How Important Is Spontaneity in Your Sex Life?

Very important, spontaneity relieves stress

Extremely important, spontaneity adds excitement

Somewhat important, but with mutual agreement

Moderately important, but I enjoy planned intimacy too

Not crucial, I prefer a sense of security in planning

Important, spontaneity adds passion to the moment

Important, spontaneity enhances the pleasure of the moment

Somewhat important, but a balance of planned and spontaneous works

Moderately important, with a focus on emotional connection

Not crucial, as long as there's a deeper connection

Very important, I enjoy surprises

What is Your Sex Personality Type?

The Decompresser

For you, sex is all about stress relief. Especially whenever you’re feeling overwhelmed. You love the physical and mental release that happens when you orgasm. You may even use sex (whether solo or partnered) to help you fall asleep at night.

The Explorer

Your sexual curiosity knows no bounds, always eager to learn and open to trying new things.

The Fair-Trader

As the fair-trader, you believe in a give-and-take dynamic, expecting your partner to meet your needs with enthusiasm, as you’re ready to reciprocate gladly.

The Giver

For you, your partner’s sexual experience is of utmost importance–you don’t play. You love to satisfy your partner because that’s just who you are, and turning them on brings you pleasure.

The Guardian

Feeling secure and safe with your partner is your top priority. This is because you may have dealt with sexual trauma in the past.

The Passion-Pursuer

For the passion-pursuer, sex doesn’t meet your standards unless it’s electrifying, all-consuming, passionate, and maybe even animalistic.

The Pleasure-Seeker

Sex, to you, is one of life’s simple pleasures. Your primary love language is most likely physical touch, and you find joy in the intimacy it brings.

The Prioritizer

No matter how overwhelmed you are, you will always make time for sex. Even when you’re tired, you will always find the time. You never want yourself or your partner to make excuses or be too busy for sex.

The Romantic

For you, the purpose of sex is to connect with your partner on an emotional and deeper level, not just the physical one.

The Spiritualist

The Spiritualist believes that sex should be a transcendent experience. You enjoy sex that connects you to a higher purpose.

The Thrill Seeker

For you, there’s a thrill to having sex that feels forbidden or taboo. While the Explorer simply likes to explore, for exploration sake, you on the other hand crave that sense of taboo.