The female orgasm is still such a myth to a lot of women. Did you know that there are over 6 types of female orgasms? They include vaginal, clitoral, cervical, blended, nipple, anal and more. Incredible, I know. There are so many ways to orgasm and yet, its still hard for so many of us.
Did you also know that you can have two types of orgasms at once? Blended Orgasm is a clitoral and vaginal orgasm that happens at the same time. Yet, so many women find it hard to reach the big ‘O’ because sex as we know it is very male centered. It is important I also add that there’s nothing wrong with you if you find it hard to orgasm, but hopefully that changes after reading this article. You deserve maximum pleasure too!
There’s no direct way to reach an orgasm, but there are sex positions that can help. These positions are not specific to sex between heterosexual couples only, lesbians and bisexual women can also take part in them.
“Come here”
Hollywood told us that partners orgasm at the exact same time, but most times it doesn’t work that way. This technique can be used when your partner has cum and you are yet to. Ask them to slip two fingers inside you and while inside, ask them to curl the fingers towards your belly button as if to say to you “come here”. Fingering is not about aimlessly jabbing the vagina, curling their fingers helps stimulate the G Spot, which is located in the upper part of the vaginal canal.
Legs On Shoulder
For this position, your partner has to kneel on, or stand at the edge of a bed and then put one or both of your legs on their shoulders. The position opens you up in a way missionary normally wouldn’t. Your partner would need to start slowly though, as fast or deep penetration can be initially painful. Many women are unable to orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone, so you might need all hands on deck, literally.
Ask your partner to rub your clit while at it, and watch an orgasm take over your body in minutes or less.
Cowgirl
This one is my favorite. It’s basically your partner lying on their back while you straddle them, positioning yourself over their penis or strap on and then sliding down on it. Take things up a notch and grind your clit against them. Double pleasure if you ask me – the fulfilment from being filled up and the ecstasy from the clit grinding. I’ve heard that men don’t feel a lot of pleasure in this position, which isn’t the worst thing because women don’t feel pleasure during some positions as well. Teamwork makes the dreamwork. Besides, this position is allll about you. All focus should be on you, and your clit.
The clitoris is the only human organ that is solely there for pleasure, and has more than 8,000 nerve endings. If you’re like me and you have a really sensitive clit, then this position is perfect. Grind your clit at the pace that works best for you.
There are many variations to the cowgirl position. Instead of grinding your clit against them, you can lean back for deeper penetration while your partner flicks their thumb over your clit for added stimulation. Or you can just simply be a cow-girl and ride him or the strap into bliss. Whichever way, as long as it’s one that leads to a mind-blowing, or multiple orgasms!
Collapsed doggy
This one is for when you’ve exhausted yourself or you’re just feeling lazy. It’s more like doggy but instead of being on all fours, you’re lying face down with your partner behind and on you. To enhance better penetration, you would have to raise your butt up (no you’re not arching your back, just tilting your ass up a bit while you continue to lay down. Remember, this is the lazy version of the doggy-position). Put a pillow under the lower part of your stomach for balance and comfort. You can also reach down to stimulate your clit for added pleasure. Your partner’s penis or strap on has to be on the big side so they’ll really get in and hit the right places, and hopefully your G Spot.
Hopefully these positions work for you, or at least gives you increased pleasure during sex!
