Putting yourself first, especially as a woman, is always a highly recommended pro tip for navigating the world as seamlessly as possible. Prioritizing your needs, feelings, and wants is a sure way to be happier and gain clarity on your purpose. It can also improve your mental health and well-being, positively affecting your interpersonal relationships and work life.
However, putting yourself first doesn’t mean you should withhold from pouring back into the people who pour (love, kindness and support) into you. It doesn’t mean getting so caught up in being the main character that you treat everyone else as an afterthought.
If you get 10/15 on this quiz, it’s time to reevaluate if you’re really putting yourself first in a way that makes for a fuller life or if you’re just selfish, self-centred and out of touch with reality.
You just finished having dinner with your girlfriends at Kappadocia Restaurant. The waiter has come to drop the bill and everyone at the table, apart from you, has forgotten their ATM at home. They can’t make a bank transfer either because the network there is terrible or some other justifiable reason. What’s your next move?
You’ve been friends with this cool babe for a while now. So far so good, she always shows up for you. The other day, you were in a fix and desperately needed her to come through for you, but she didn’t. You are pretty bombed by her inaction, are you cutting her off?
You’re on a first date at a fancy restaurant. Your date is going to pay. How are you ordering?
Your man promised to get you a pair of diamond earrings that has been on your wishlist for like, forever. The day he told you to remind him to purchase the jewellry is the day he received a hefty and unexpected work-related billing. He sent you a text to let you know how this unplanned expense has ruined his mood. Are you still going to remind him of the earrings he promised you?
Choose one Vampires Diaries Character
You’re going for your friend’s birthday party. Be honest, what are you taking along?
How many friends do you have?
You and your best girls go clubbing at Zaza. The vibes are lit and the group is having fun. During the course of the night, you meet a sexy man and he wants you alone to himself. Are you ditching your girls?
Which affirmation resonates most with the current state of your life?
You and your friend got into a disagreement. At some point, you got so angry so you said some really hurtful things to them. How are you going to resolve the conflict?
Choose one Sex and The City Character
A friend of yours is in a fix and although they told you about the problem, they never directly asked for your help. How do you proceed?
Do you like human beings? Be honest!
Would you rather…
Can you help others without expecting anything in return?
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