We’ve all had that moment: toes curled, smiling at the screen, hugging a pillow, thinking, “I want this.”
Why? Because these men embody all we genuinely want: emotional support, respect, and unconditional love. They prove that love isn’t just words but about being a dependable, understanding, and compassionate partner – while providing the baby girl treatment.
Here’s our list of the top 11 movie and TV series boyfriends who’ve set the bar high for romance:
1. Noah Roklov (Nobody Wants This)
Played by: Adam Brody
Adam Brody has a knack for making hearts swoon, whether he’s playing Noah Roklov in Nobody Wants This or the lovable Seth Cohen in The OC. He especially stood out as Noah, embodying the patience and emotional stability needed for Joanne to drop her guard. He loved her for who she was, never pushed her, and was consistent and supportive. While they may have had misunderstandings, he got her over the ick and always chose her.
Noah’s patience and commitment to being there for Joanne while respecting her independence makes him an ideal modern boyfriend. Despite Joanne letting him go to spare herself more heartbreak, Noah returns, making it clear that she comes first and will always be his choice.
2. Peter Kavinsky (To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before)
Played by: Noah Centineo
Peter is the embodiment of the high school sweetheart every girl wishes for. He’s attentive and sweet and tries to understand Lara Jean’s quirks and insecurities. He never shames her for being different or for her romantic fantasies. Instead, he leans into it, making every moment count, from love letters to grand gestures that feel sincere.
Peter is one of the few guys who would drive all the way across town just to bring Lara Jean her favorite Korean yogurt drink, showing it’s the small, thoughtful things that truly matter.
3. Matt Flamhaff (13 Going on 30)
Played by: Mark Ruffalo
Matt isn’t just the classic “boy-next-door”; he’s also the friend who always believed in Jenna. His love for her remained steadfast even when they grew apart. He loved Jenna not for who she pretended to be but for her authentic self. When Jenna realised what she’d lost, Matt was there, arms open just for her.
Matt never held a grudge and was always there for Jenna even when she didn’t know who she was, highlighting that real love is patient and accepting.
4. Chandler Bing (Friends)
Played by: Matthew Perry
Chandler was more than just the funny guy; he was the loyal partner who supported Monica through thick and thin. He respected her ambitions, stood by her even when it was difficult, and never tried to overshadow her achievements. His vulnerability and awkward charm made their relationship feel genuine and relatable. We can’t forget the iconic moment when Chandler confronted his fear of commitment and proposed to Monica in one of the show’s most heartfelt scenes, marking a turning point in his emotional growth.
5. Finn Hudson (Glee)
Played by: Cory Monteith
Finn’s relationship with Rachel is complex, but his support for her dreams remains constant. Finn is compassionate and encouraging and helps Rachel believe in herself without dimming his own light. He’s not perfect, but his willingness to grow and be better makes him a true dream boyfriend. While we might have been teary-eyed as he released Rachel to pursue her dreams in New York, we had to admit that love sometimes means stepping back for the other person’s happiness.
6. Marshall Eriksen (How I Met Your Mother)
Played by: Jason Segel
Marshall is the textbook definition of a loving and supportive partner. He and Lily’s relationship is built on mutual respect, laughter, and unwavering support. He respects Lily’s ambitions, dreams, and even her flaws. From the day he met her, he treated her like the one—no games or lies—and we sure loved celebrating their on-screen love. Marshall knows how to balance being a best friend and a loving husband, never compromising on their connection.
7. Dominic (Think like a man)
Played by: Michael Ealy
Dominic might have started off as a guy with big dreams and no plan, but his true transformation was in how he evolved to become a better man for Lauren. With Lauren, he became the kind of partner who wasn’t just trying to impress but wanted to genuinely support and cherish her. His transformation wasn’t just for himself; it was a commitment to becoming the man he knew she deserved.
8. Jack Dawson (Titanic)
Played by: Leonardo DiCaprio
Jack’s zest for life and willingness to sacrifice everything for Rose are unforgettable. He sees Rose for who she is, beyond her status and expectations, and inspires her to live fearlessly. He was the stand-up guy, encouraging Rose to break free from societal expectations and live for herself, making him not just a romantic partner but a catalyst for her self-discovery. Jack’s sacrifice at the end, ensuring Rose’s survival, solidifies his status as one of the most selfless boyfriends in cinema history.
9. Anthony Bridgerton (Bridgerton)
Played by: Jonathan Bailey
Anthony’s journey from a guarded man to a partner who’s willing to let go of control for love makes him an ideal boyfriend. His relationship with Kate is built on mutual respect and fiery passion. When he confesses his love to Kate, willing to face society’s judgment just to be with her, he had us giggling like true romantics.
10. Chuck Bass (Gossip Girl)
Played by: Ed Westwick
Chuck might seem like an odd choice, given his reputation as the show’s “bad boy,” but by the end, he proves that love can inspire change. While he started as the ultimate red flag, Chuck’s transformation into a dedicated partner for Blair shows that redemption is possible
He learns to prioritize Blair’s happiness, a huge leap from his earlier days. Blair is his top priority, even when it means sacrificing his interests to showcase his growth and commitment to her.
11. Mide (Skinny Girl In Transit)
Played by: Ayoola Ayoola
If there’s an award for the most consistent boyfriend, Mide would take it home without question. He started as Tiwa’s boss but quickly evolved into a loving partner who saw beyond her insecurities and helped her rediscover her confidence. Mide’s love is patient, affirming, and constant. Even when Tiwa doubts herself, he reassures her with heartfelt lines like, “Show me how to love you.” Mide’s love is the perfect portrayal of what true love should be—supportive, unconditional, and uplifting.
