If you’re currently crushing on a cutie that’s born between January 20 – February 18, congrats! they’re an Aquarius. Aquarius signs are magnetic and quirky, but also very aloof and detached. So if you’re vexing at their late replies, or even wondering if they might have ghosted you because they haven’t responded to your text from 3 days ago, they probably haven’t. Aquarius signs are known to retreat into their space also known as their minds from time to time.
They will text back when they are ready and there’s really nothing you can do about it.
Trust me, you do not want to be all up in their face, they will waste no time in cutting you off.
Aquarius signs need their space just as much as we need air to breathe.
This sign is very hard to understand. One minute you might think you have them figured out, and the next minute their behavior/attitude forces you to think again.
Here’s the tea on the Alien sign known as Aquarians; what they want, how they act in relationships, and more.
So, what’s an Aquarius actually looking for in a relationship?
Aquarius signs are attracted to people who can open up their minds. They are attracted to intellectuality and originality. They are drawn to people who stand out, just like they do.
They are all about intellectual stimulation. You need to be able to engage in interesting and complex conversations to get them romantically interested in you.
However, they dislike labels, vulnerability and just anything that causes them to let their walls down.
You would think that Aquarians are cold hearted people, but its all a front. They are the most emotional and loving people, but they don’t want anyone seeing that side to them. They really are afraid to be vulnerable. If an Aquarius lets their guard down for you, trust me, you must be special.
They want spontaneity in their relationships. They want you to give them attention, but not too much. There has to be a balance between smothering them with love, and giving them their space when they want/need it.
An Aquarius’s love is out of this world. Dating them allows you see the world through their eyes, and its magical.
So, how do Aquarius’s behave in relationships?
1/ They are great listeners:
Aquarius signs are wonderful listeners, and they give the best advice. Seriously, they should be shrinks!
Its also why they make the best friends. Whenever you have a problem, you can always count on your Aquarius friend/partner to listen, give sound advice and just make you feel better.
You want to know the best part? they will never judge.
2/ They are fiercely independent:
Aquarius signs want you to know they are independent.
They want you to know that with or without you, they go dey alright.
They want you to know that they are goal oriented and driven.
Being independent, unique and progressive is a badge of honor for Aquarius’s.
3/ They are very rebellious, don’t ever tell them what to do:
Tell an Aquarius what to do, and they will do the opposite just because.
And I mean, just because.
One thing this sign hates is being told what to do. Its like it makes their bodies itch.
You want to get an Aquarius to walk out of your life? then dictate to them how you want them to live their life.
They have a mind of their own and its what makes them stand out from the crowd. They are never motivated by the approval of others. Whatever they do, they do for their own reasons.
4/ They are aloof and detached:
If I didn’t say this already, Aquarius signs live in their heads. 95% of the time they are daydreaming, which is why they seem aloof and detached a lot of the time. They just can’t help it.
5/ They can be realllllly stubborn:
You want to fight with an Aquarius? you wouldn’t win o.
They can be really stubborn and uncompromising, so if you want to start a fight with them, good luck. You’ll need it.
6/ They love sex kinky and adventurous sex:
Aquarius signs are very open-minded, so trying new things is a big YES for them.
Getting an Aquarius partner will have you on your toes, literally.
They hate anything that seems ordinary and boring. They get bored really quickly, which is why they pair well with spontaneous, out-of-the-box Gemini. Also an Air sign.
7/ They are edgy and eccentric:
Aquarius signs are edgy people, meaning they are drawn to unconventional people just like themselves.
They dress how they want and have their own style, and they don’t care whether you like it or not.
They take pride in being different and owning their individuality.
I mean, look at Harry Styles? a true Aquarius king.
Read: Here’s What You Should Know Before Hooking Up with a Gemini
Happy Aquarius season, bbs! Keep being the amazing rebels that you are.
